Curse

wsmcasey · Oct 11, 2005, 10:22 PM // 22:22

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Originally Posted by Zaklex

Here in lies your problem, you should almost never have a long term relationship based physically, that is just Lust pure and simple. You should start from the heart and work outwards, I learned that the hard way and it only took me the last several years to realize that.

Unfortunately almost all relationships start with lust. Any long lasting relationship requires both mental and physical attraction.

Mistress Eyahl · Oct 11, 2005, 11:30 PM // 23:30

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Originally Posted by John Waffletord

Sorry for saying this girl could be lying to him completely, because that is the biggest problem with meeting people online. If he can't handle the truth then he shouldn't be talking to people about.

People are more likely to lie in person to get what they want. Online, they can only have your conversation.

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I've seen enough online relationships that haven't worked to have an understanding of them.

My problem is this imaginary survey you seem to have cooked up that states more don't work out than do.

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3 online long-distance relationships? Huge waste of time IMO.

Read what I said. I met the guys THROUGH the internet, then had relationships with them. And huge waste of time? Yeah, cos having love and devotion and a total of 4 and a half years between the three of combined relationships is a waste of time. So says the guy who had no friends. Maybe if you could make them you'd understand how nice it is to spend time with people.

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I think its funny that you guys keep attacking my opinion like im going to change it or something just because of 1 person who claims to have had decent online relationships.

Have your own opinon. I just can't stand people who have the attitude "I don't like it, so therefore it's crap". That's YOUR opinion, not EVERYONE'S opinon.. so don't force it on other people and ridicule them for something you don't like/don't have a hope in hells chance of doing.

Zaklex · Oct 12, 2005, 12:14 AM // 00:14

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Originally Posted by wsmcasey

Unfortunately almost all relationships start with lust. Any long lasting relationship requires both mental and physical attraction.

I never said they didn't start that way, but they shouldn't, that's what I learned and that's how I'm approaching it in my new one. Which I won't say where it started, but it wasn't face to face, nor was it what someone might consider a "normal" on-line meeting, but it's also long-distance and we're both in the same positions in our lives, and that's all I'm saying.

Witchblade · Oct 12, 2005, 12:18 AM // 00:18

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Originally Posted by Mistress Eyahl

Read what I said. I met the guys THROUGH the internet, then had relationships with them. And huge waste of time? Yeah, cos having love and devotion and a total of 4 and a half years between the three of combined relationships is a waste of time. So says the guy who had no friends. Maybe if you could make them you'd understand how nice it is to spend time with people.

I difference might be that it's easier for a girl to meet a guy...
The opposite is very different since most girls are fakes :/

chris_nin00 · Oct 12, 2005, 12:18 AM // 00:18

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Originally Posted by Witchblade

I difference might be that it's easier for a girl to meet a guy...
The opposite is very different since most girls are fakes :/

That means it will take longer for me?

Witchblade · Oct 12, 2005, 12:21 AM // 00:21

huh? didnt get ur point... sry

Platinum Agent · Oct 12, 2005, 12:42 AM // 00:42

well, my gf plays gw, of course i met her in school but hey

Link Ironhammer · Oct 12, 2005, 01:18 AM // 01:18

lucky you, at least you have a gf

John Waffletord · Oct 12, 2005, 02:32 AM // 02:32

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Originally Posted by Zaklex

Here in lies your problem, you should almost never have a long term relationship based physically, that is just Lust pure and simple. You should start from the heart and work outwards, I learned that the hard way and it only took me the last several years to realize that.

Emotional and physical go hand in hand in my book.. I'd be perfectly fine with a non-physical relationship, if thats what a girl wanted.. for atleast sometime anyway.. but the desire is going to be there. Even without sex though, just the time spent together cuddling and stuff is something that would, for me, make long-distance relationships worthless.

John Waffletord · Oct 12, 2005, 02:42 AM // 02:42

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Originally Posted by Mistress Eyahl

People are more likely to lie in person to get what they want. Online, they can only have your conversation.

Yeah right. People are way more likely to lie online because of the fact that they'll never see these people in real life. They hide behind their computers and make things up all day.

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Originally Posted by Mistress Eyahl

My problem is this imaginary survey you seem to have cooked up that states more don't work out than do.

Just like your imaginary survey that states more people lie in real life than online. Talk about a hypocrit.

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Originally Posted by Mistress Eyahl

Read what I said. I met the guys THROUGH the internet, then had relationships with them. And huge waste of time? Yeah, cos having love and devotion and a total of 4 and a half years between the three of combined relationships is a waste of time. So says the guy who had no friends. Maybe if you could make them you'd understand how nice it is to spend time with people.

Had no friends, like 5 years ago i did this whole online life stuff.. I'm hardly ever online anymore, except at work.

this is what you said

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Originally Posted by Mistress Eyahl

I've had three relationships that have been from meeting people online, and they've been long distance.

Long distance is what im referring to as worthless.

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Originally Posted by Mistress Eyahl

Have your own opinon. I just can't stand people who have the attitude "I don't like it, so therefore it's crap". That's YOUR opinion, not EVERYONE'S opinon.. so don't force it on other people and ridicule them for something you don't like/don't have a hope in hells chance of doing.

I didn't force it upon anyone. If you took what i said as a means of forcing then you must be very easily influenced. I'm not forcing anyone to read what im posting. Hate me all you want, I don't care, im going to express my opinion. Ridicule him i have not, I just told him there are better ways to do it. You must not get along with many people if you hate anyone who doesn't like things.

Mistress Eyahl · Oct 12, 2005, 07:04 AM // 07:04

Yawn lol.. oh, and I never said more people lie. I said they're more likely to. You don't gain anything from lying online. Guy chats you up, asks you out, buys you dinner.. you can never be sure what he's after. You don't get that online cos.. they can't GET anything else.

I mean, you've obviously had shit experiences.. poor you. I've had good ones, so I'll thank you to stfu about "Wastes of time" because frankly I'm quite shocked at how rude and arrogant this is.

Lag Hell · Oct 12, 2005, 08:54 AM // 08:54

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Originally Posted by Link Ironhammer

lucky you, at least you have a gf

hey.. if we could all find that special some 1 jus like that...
dun worry man, im sure therell be a hot chik out there sumwhere 4 u

Naprius · Oct 12, 2005, 09:05 AM // 09:05

my dad always says: 'if you want a girl, you won't find them behind your computer!'

well they're supposed to find me, not the other way around.

but hey he's right. i'll never get one the way i'm going now. maybe it's for the better, women just make you feel miserable most of the time.

Witchblade · Oct 12, 2005, 09:09 AM // 09:09

Well i think i m worse than u then

Even behind from a computer i m very boring for em...so i kinda forgot the IRL way ^^

Naprius · Oct 12, 2005, 09:12 AM // 09:12

my guess is.. women make you happy. they make you complete. for a year or 2.

then they just make your life hell..

Witchblade · Oct 12, 2005, 09:13 AM // 09:13

sounds like u know what ur talking about :/

Naprius · Oct 12, 2005, 09:36 AM // 09:36

yes i do.

remember , i said i had a fcked up year?

well that was one aspect of it

Lag Hell · Oct 12, 2005, 09:37 AM // 09:37

Ive had this random internet chain letter sent to me b4 from a friend, passed it on and deleted it, i think it went something like...

Boys like girls because:
How warm they feel in ur arms
How their hair always finds the right spot on ur shoulder
how cute they look when they argue
The feeling u get when u see ur Girlfriends name on ur pager after uve had an arguement
How when u kiss all else in the world seems to lose significance
etc..etc..

Naprius · Oct 12, 2005, 09:38 AM // 09:38

you mean those yaddayadda

lovely bunny stories

Lag Hell · Oct 12, 2005, 09:41 AM // 09:41

ROFL! "lovely bunny stories"
i supose so, real life never seems so good